Teenage Observations, Part 5: Lesbianism and Bisexuality

Teenage girls are infatuated with bisexuality because boys are infatuated with lesbians.

 Like most of these observations the cause and effect are all so related, it’s like the circle of life or…the food chain.

For the last 30 years or so, pornography and homosexuality have become more and more acceptable as people’s sexual appetites have grown hungrier and hungrier at the same time that marriages were ending in divorce more and more……..

Because young men, and old, seemed to be hopelessly addicted to porn they desired to see other men in their pornography less and less because of the fear of becoming gay (themselves).

So, as a solution to this (men seeing men in pornography), as people became more and more obsessed with watching other people have sex instead of having it with their spouses, porn producers started making more and more pornography with girl-on-girl action. Now it’s the norm and it’s what most porn addicted men want to see.

This lesbian pornography has etched itself into the heart of American culture and the heart is quickly turning black.

Because of this, girls feel that in order to get the love and affection that they long for (a love and affection that can only truly be found in Christ), that they have to give themselves sexually to a boy. So in order to do this they dress provocatively like prostitutes, use sultry come-on lines that they heard from soft porn (aka MTV) AND sometimes resort to sexually interacting with other girls and hoping that a boy that they’re interested in will find out about it or even see it so that the boy will be aroused by it and give the girl some type of love and affection through the form of sex. Complicated? Not really.

Once the guy has consumed the girl sexually he will move on because no guy in their right mind would want to have a study girlfriend who messes around with other people, especially girls, right?

And, once this girl has been dumped so many times by the same boys that she tried so hard to get to love her through sex, she starts to think that the only people who give her anything near that kind of love that she has been searching for are: other girls.

Now she is confused because she really wants love and affection from a man (especially since her daddy is not around), but she can only get something like it from girls. So she thinks to herself,” Am I a lesbian?” and often believes this lie, ditches boys all together, and lives the rest of her life in conflict: a conflict that could only be resolved by coming to Jesus and finding a man who has also come to Jesus. And once they come together, they could share the love that Jesus gave them with each other in a way that nothing else could compare with.

Does this seem crazy to you? It’s not. Open your eyes to the young people around you. Open your ears and hear the cry of lost little girls who are craving male affection.

Two weeks ago at a youth camp I was running, I overheard a conversation of a sweet Christian girl with another girl and a young boy. She was trying to rationalize why boys get aroused by two girls being intimate with each other. And as she rationalized it, she seemed to become more and more understanding of it, more and more comfortable with it; as if she herself might feel comfortable with making out with another girl to attract the boys she likes. It would only be a meaningless kiss, right? No!

Think about it! This is a real issue that is taking place right out in front of our eyes.